Again: why does it matter? She isn't here. Knowing who she was or wasn't isn't going to change anything about the much more urgent right here and now. But if you want to focus on things that don't matter, by all means waste your time.
[ shrugs. ]
I see. So people I will never meet, and aren't here.
It's important to know what matters to someone you may have to work alongside, doesn't it? Or else, how will you how to work with them? That is why it matters.
You don't have to know someone's private information to work with them. If anything, the incessant pushing and nagging to get that information will just have an opposite effect if the person you're needling is against it.
no subject
[ shrugs. ]
I see. So people I will never meet, and aren't here.
[ see? ]
no subject
[ he's
trying so hard to understand ]
no subject
[ geez. ]
You don't have to know someone's private information to work with them. If anything, the incessant pushing and nagging to get that information will just have an opposite effect if the person you're needling is against it.
You do your job. You work with them regardless.